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Tuesday, April 2, 2013; 8:59 PM
Childish or Mature

Act childishly but think maturely is that possible?
Truthfully, we have our childish side deep inside..but we just don't simply show to anyone. We more likely to act maturely so that people won't say that we are childish.
Hmm..When does childish become a negative adjectives?
In love relationship, it's worst when people say you are childish especially when you are a guy...
In friendship, if you act childishly people will questioned your act...
In family, the elders will questioned your age to do such thing..
Indeed, it had become a term that we want to avoid hearing from people mouth.

Why mature is so important?
You think maturely means you are always the one who can made the right decision, do the right thing and made people feel more safe..they less worry about you..because you are mature enough to do and settle your things on your own.
Definitely, it's good that if one can act and think maturely all the time. Mature enough to be independent.

How can we classify mature and childish?
In a relationship, when you decide to let go of someone you love so much because you think that he/she deserve a better one. Is this a mature decision or childish decision?
In the first viewer position, it's a mature decision, because he/she said that he/she learnt to let go and know what's best for their love one.
In outsider view, it's childish. How can you know she/he deserve a better one?How can you know you are not the one for him/her? It's childish and selfish decision. Yes, in some occasion, you get applause from your friends, you are so great that you can let go of someone you love. What does this action prove? Getting a "good  man" title? Carrying all the pain alone?? Fantastic, Incredible endurance...

Is it worthwhile for doing all those things and hiding it?? An invisible man? Impossible. Someday, people will know what you've done. Secret can hardly be secret when you've overdone it.

To act childish to hide maturity? To act maturely to hide Childish?
Here you go...another choices to be made.
"Remember who you are..Remember...Remember..."